It’s no big secret!

Don’t tell em

People are funny. Especially my people.

Maybe it’s just my experience but those closest to me are the weirdest and most honest and vocal humans in existence. Is that a reflection of what is jillanne? Unique and opinionated is more appropriate.

What do they think?

Since starting this blog some friends and another slightly closer have shared some of their opinions. They were all men.

I bet

Another’s perspective is golden.

Hearing others thoughts on most subjects [including gender equality] is the reason for living. Opposing ideas invoke thought. Trying to understand the perspective of another human being is crucial. They were defensive when sharing their thoughts. First of all men today can hardly be held responsible. I’m not angry with men. This is just what we were born in.

A couple of friends felt these articles hypocritical.

Mean mugging little girl

If they read any revisions or even rough posts they’d notice how wrong they are. Time to clear up any misconceptions.

Psssst don’t tell anyone, buuuuut….


Surprise! years of doing things without thinking of others made for many dramas. Running into wall after wall making enemies and looking like an idiot. Even to this day following my own rules is sometimes hard. Maybe I’m a glutton for punishment.

Grrrr nobody likes to feel dumb
No pain no gain

How can we help.

No I’m not an ideal role model. Not in my opinion, but the need is there. I try to do right even in my human self centered condition.

Not bad for an uncultured swine


I can speak to a group of girls that may be more like me. Unpolished unrefined and sadly uneducated.Trying not to be a hypocritical hot mess. Just trying to make things better and be a part of something bigger.

The end♡

Can’t reach your destination with procrastination.

A bit of poetry

It is with great hesitation we get thru this presentation. Putting off this creation to enjoy that lazy sensation.

When you put off what needs to get done….

Already a rough week the boss said don’t come in tonight midweek dayshift road truck Thursday. Not good news. Saturday my glasses disappeared from the water truck. Been blind but procrastinating the eye Dr not only for days, But for 2 years. Not only was the eye Dr on the avoid at all costs list, but so was the dmv. There was a chance I wasn’t road legal. Had to tell the boss. Then called Hilda the dispatch for our road trucks. Then the head honcho, Mr m. Let’s just say he was less than pleased. He had every right to be. At the dmv 4 different things needed to be handled.

Now 2 days no pay😬

Luckily Mr M. was pretty nice about it all. He did say how important keeping up on all my cdl stuff was. I felt terrible for not being prepared. When a driver can’t be there they have to rent a whole truck and driver. Can’t be cheap.

If it’s your living don’t even cut it close.

He told me that my cdl is super important and keeping it up to date and taking care of all that is needed for my cdl to maintain my job was more than necessary to my way of living. He kindly made sure I got the time off needed. 7 hours at the dmv and all those issues were gone. Then emergency glasses were made up from my favorite sunglasses by a hero named Josie. I managed with alot of luck to handle it in one day leaving me broke but no longer blind or concerned that my cdl wasn’t in affect.

New glasses
Love those glasses

The end